We don't know the answer to that. There are multiple factors, and it takes a lot to make a healthy child and the outcome is dependent on age of the mother, the father and the uterine environment.
That's what happens to DNA, and it can cause miscarriages and infertility. But generally, this can all be detected, defined and diagnosed so we can make decisions about them.
With men, you can't screen for these errors in the DNA that cause mutations unless you know of them ahead of time, but they tend to be new. And they tend to be neurodevelopmental features. Turek pinpoints the following risks for men over 40 with the risks sharpening as the decades pass : 2-fold increased risk of miscarriage 2-fold increased risk of pre-term birth 1.
They are not just looking for guys who will be good fathers and providers. Older women can be more playful. They are more relaxed. It's really a personality thing for me regarding what is attractive. I enjoy a confident attitude and older women definitely have the upper hand in that area. She knows what she wants in life and it makes being with her so much easier.
I look at a lot of my friends who have girlfriends their age and younger and the problems they have strike me as ridiculous. They frequently act foolish and immature.
I don't have time for that behavior—that's why I like mature women. It's like a rush. She offered me the opportunity to see another younher on a lot of different issues. I mean, older women think differently on certain issues and they've got more experience. I grew up a lot with her. Yeah, definitely, she helped me to grow up.
She made me realize how important I could be in making someone else happy. Not that I was doing it for yoknger, but just being with her. Need I say more?
There have been younyer but positives in my relationships with two older women. They were able to see things in me that I could not see in myself. Also, there were levels of honesty unlike anything I've experienced even with best friends. Open, upbeat and extremely handsome, he revealed the enormous love and respect he shared with his former partner and now shares with his current partner.
Fred's first older-woman experience occurred when he was 21 years old and Gretchen was They lived together for two years. They are both still very close and see each other regularly. Not only did they have a tremendous friendship as the basis of their relationship, but an extraordinary sex life as well. Recently, this woman underwent major surgery and it was her ex-boyfriend Fred, not the woman's current older boyfriend, who was by her side.
Gretchen, now 44, was involved with a man of 51 and he was simply too busy with work and personal commitments to be available when she really needed him. It lkoking Fred who visited her on a regular basis and saw to it that she had what she needed during her recuperation. Jackman is 13 years younger than his spouse.
Getty Images file After his relationship with Gretchen ended, Fred tried dating girls in their early 20s. He explained, often quite humorously, how ridiculous he felt trying to have meaningful conversation over blaring music at a dance club.
His brief experimentation with younger females only reaped endless head games, confusion and immature behavior. Resolutely, Fred abandoned the "young woman trial period. He decided this time to accept it. His next relationship was with Marla, a co-worker.
They were great friends and then she began to pursue him. Why not? She was older. Maybe it would work.
But Marla's flaw seemed to be that she was only five years older — and for Fred, that still wasn't enough to produce the kind of emotional maturity and depth for which he searched. After a year or so of taking a "time-out," Fred met Lynne. She is 10 years older. Fred's respect and appreciation of older women was clear when he spoke: "The way mature women carry themselves shows they know who they are.
It equates to stability. They've already figured out who they are. Maybe not all the time, but a lot more often than younger women. They are all-around much more attractive to me.
You know this is the kind of person who's going loking tell you exactly what they want and they are more sure of themselves than the people my age or younger. Older women are much more well rounded — they know what they feel and why they feel it.
It has a snowball effect all the way around. It's adventurous for both of us, because it's a whole new exciting journey. Younger women just don't allow me to grow in the ways older women do.
I considered it a hell of a jump start on life. For example, the issue of having or not having children came up repeatedly: "My first relationship with an older woman — I was 20 and she was 36 — lasted two and llooking half years. My second — I was 28 and she was 41 — lasted three years and we lived together for one year. The main thing that attracted me was the overall calm of an older woman.